tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7957597286059650417.post9154378885436241637..comments2023-08-20T01:44:12.421-06:00Comments on Law of Attraction Playground: Got Bad Feelings?Good Vibe Coachhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12910657116755170824noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7957597286059650417.post-50122664836707376532007-11-07T08:47:00.000-07:002007-11-07T08:47:00.000-07:00That was pretty interesting, John. I forwarded th...That was pretty interesting, John. I forwarded that on to a couple of people I've had discussions with about Stonehenge, the Pyramids, and such.<BR/><BR/>It's a fascinating world we live in, huh? I don't think we've even scratched the surface of what there is to know about our capabilities.<BR/><BR/>Thanks for sharing, as always! I can always count on you for something interesting! :)Good Vibe Coachhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12910657116755170824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7957597286059650417.post-33593447855736752402007-11-05T15:03:00.000-07:002007-11-05T15:03:00.000-07:00This is entirely off the thread's topic, but may b...This is entirely off the thread's topic, but may be handy nonetheless:<BR/><BR/>Have you seen what <A HREF="http://www.liveleak.com/view?i=ce0f825617" REL="nofollow">this guy</A> does? It suggests a pretty easy metaphor or two, but if you ponder what he's doing, the idea of its "rediscovery", and other aspects, I think there's a lot more to make of it. I leave it in your capable hands.Peregrine Johnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03511962495322344119noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7957597286059650417.post-26972411855092607422007-11-04T22:47:00.000-07:002007-11-04T22:47:00.000-07:00Mandy Evans writes in "Emotional Options, a Handbo...Mandy Evans writes in "Emotional Options, a Handbook for Happiness" that our freedom and happiness lie in being able to choose our emotions. She was on a summer tour with her book just weeks after her mom died.<BR/><BR/>So here she was out teaching people how to choose to be happy, while she was dealing with a great deal of personal grief.<BR/><BR/>Here's the excerpt I read just this morning that I was reminded of in reading your post tonight:<BR/><BR/>"During one of the first talks, in a church in Albuquerque, a man asked, 'What do you do when YOU feel sorrow or grief?' Tears welled in my eyes. My voice cracked a little as I answered, 'My mother died a few weeks ago so I'm feeling it now. I cry often these days. So first I accept myself just the way I am. Then I ask myself what am I crying about? And why? It's mysterious to me. But I know this is how I want to feel.'<BR/><BR/>I think we always feel the way we want to feel. But that choice takes place in a context of beliefs we may not be aware of. Very often we disapprove of our feelings so strongly that we try to hide them, change them, or suppress them without ever accepting them and learning what they can teach us."<BR/><BR/>Jeannette again: I read that twice as I wondered about her choice to feel the grief. Here's a woman who is probably more practiced than most people on the planet at choosing their feelings, and she's acknowledging that she wanted to feel the grief.<BR/><BR/>Part of me understands that, although I sure couldn't articulate why.<BR/><BR/>Jerry Sloan (our Jazz basketball coach) was interviewed tonight about the death of his wife a couple years ago and the family medical challenges several key players on his team have experienced. He basically said although everyone around you wants to help, this is really your own work.<BR/><BR/>It is, isn't it? <BR/><BR/>Glad you're finding value in the post, Trish. Much love to you, dear friend.Good Vibe Coachhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12910657116755170824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7957597286059650417.post-21015071932734762262007-11-03T07:22:00.000-06:002007-11-03T07:22:00.000-06:00Dear Sweet Jeanette,I am so profoundly grateful fo...Dear Sweet Jeanette,<BR/><BR/>I am so profoundly grateful for this blog post. All week I have felt that you've been one beacon in the watery reservoir of grief that has been able to guide, nourish and protect me while I feel these feelings. I do feel so very sad...I'm concerned that I'll undo all my LOA 'graduate work' that I've learned but as you say what you resist persists. I'm reaching out to many, planning a birthday party for my son and a girlfriend brunch in the next two weeks and trying to maintain a sense of normalcy while not denying this grief. Charlie Brown's 'Good Grief' has a new meaning for me (lol...a little). Thank you so very much for being a true and kind blessing in my life and on this earth. I do love you.<BR/><BR/>Much benevolence,<BR/>Your fan and friend, TrishAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7957597286059650417.post-19642344988988880172007-11-02T15:51:00.000-06:002007-11-02T15:51:00.000-06:00That's weird - I sat at the computer for quite a w...That's weird - I sat at the computer for quite a while waiting for inspiration to hit, and was surprised with the topic when it did. lol<BR/><BR/>Seriously, Kim, good for you for being willing to feel the feelings. That is SO underrated and underpracticed in our culture, in my opinion. We're usually REALLY good at avoiding feelings and end up participating in lots of "negative" behavior (like overworking ourselves, overeating, drugs & alcohol, relationship additions, etc.) to avoid feeling those difficult feelings. <BR/><BR/>So good job girlfriend. And thanks SO MUCH for posting your experience here! You probably have no idea (or maybe you do?) how much this will inspire someone else who's struggling. <BR/><BR/>Namaste, my friend. You set the bar high. :)Good Vibe Coachhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12910657116755170824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7957597286059650417.post-89139218078229119672007-11-02T14:27:00.000-06:002007-11-02T14:27:00.000-06:00Jeanette,I’m awestruck right now reading this post...Jeanette,<BR/><BR/>I’m awestruck right now reading this post. The synchronicity is astounding! Yesterday I had a cascade of events that had me so anxious and upset I couldn’t keep from shaking. I didn’t know what to do! I didn’t want to feel these ‘bad’ feelings because I was scared that would just make matters worse!!! No, I wasn’t scared; I was terrified! And do you know what happened?<BR/><BR/>I got more and more terrified! <BR/><BR/>I was trying so hard not to vibe the bad stuff (by not feeling it) I vibe’d FEAR of the bad stuff like nobody’s business!<BR/><BR/>Everything that went ‘wrong’ felt like it was threatening my life, my peace, my cats’ lives and peace, my connection to family, my work, my study—everything and the kitchen sink was threatened. Pretty soon it felt like life would never be the same for all the stress and danger!<BR/><BR/>Fear Fear Fear!<BR/><BR/>I was quaking in my boots.<BR/><BR/>And then I remembered something you said in our High Demand group. “When you are upset, feel the feelings and self-nurture...soothe the self that feels them. It’s okay to feel them! It might even be good to feel them! Let yourself be okay with those strong feelings.”<BR/><BR/>And I did. <BR/><BR/>Immediately I burst into tears, felt the feelings and shortly there after I smiled. That felt so much BETTER! So much tension melted away and I started to see how I could get a bit of peace back, no matter what was going on around me!<BR/><BR/>By this morning, everything is a lot brighter, and then here I find your post!<BR/><BR/>It’s like you wrote it for me.<BR/><BR/>Thank you so much!<BR/><BR/>Wow! <BR/><BR/>xxxKimKim Falconerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12697828711081399249noreply@blogger.com